What do I do now?

Have you ever wondered how we reach a point in our lives we want to share with others?
Was it through school? Pre-school? Or how about overall upbringing?
The moment we share, we become a valuable resource to those around us and can actually make a difference with education and behavior. I think we reach a point where we want to share and the best things to share is love, understanding, and positivity.

Why do I think I have the ability to motivate you? Well let’s start with vibes, I find it’s important when living to make positive impacts on those around you.. at the very least make sure to either create a neutral or impactful presence. I remember ONE time in my life, someone told me I didn’t leave an impression……. fuck them. Sometimes it takes someone saying something to make you think about who you are as a person, and that’s good.. as long as you have a strong opinion of yourself, you can always do your best. I have always been a go-getter and have surrounded myself with loving people that encourage the best out of me. If I could recommend one book for you to get started on your journey it would be the four agreements.

It’s important to know; that you’re not meant for everyone.
Guess what? When you start your own business, you have to learn that or fail. You’re meant to be happy. If you work too hard on the wrong people.. you’re preventing yourself from finding the ones that deserve it.

I’ve shifted to a positive outward mindset since covid 2019 and I connect with people that respect that part of me that stays unapologetically myself. Discovering the truly authentic person that you are is how you discover your identity The people you spend your time around are going to be the biggest influences in your life; if their good people or bad people that will guide you in your life, but it doesn’t define you, unless you allow it to.

In a society that has its own views on what’s normal and expected, it’s important for us to have opinions. Opinions are expressions of your growth as an individual and don’t forget how valuable those are. The real reason I wrote this article was to give some facts about why I’ve taken on this responsibility; not only for myself but for my friends.

If you want the change – you have to be the change, put yourself first, and let those that support you come next. I graduated with two Bachelors from an accredited institute and I learned from some amazing people that won’t ever know how much they guided me into my unique life.

What are you looking to accomplish.  I don’t think we will ever be fully prepared for life, so navigate well.

When it comes to Define change it’s meant to help people grow as individuals; guiding them with opportunities of awareness, and some people don’t want to.

People ask me all the time why I’m ambitious and it’s because I want to change the world. Changing the world requires constant effort and it also requires the people around you to think in alignment. What do these words mean? Show me it means you’ve dealt with enough of societal bullshit to determine there’s a better way of living. We aim to help lead others, not to manage.

How should I feel? ‘
Be the person that shares helpful feelings, offer insight and direction; instead of negativity and closed-mindedness. With so much controversy on emotions, I believe strongly communication and passion can help make up for the lack of hand holding we have as a society. .

Don’t hold grudges, what’s the difference between the word human and human beings. Only let things in your heart that keep it beating.

I’ve been in situations where I’ve done all I could to help somebody and the only reason they couldnt move forward is because they weren’t ready for it. Running into those people is a dime a dozen and you’re going to be a challenge regularly on who you are as a person.

When does consistency and sustainability become defined. That’s a solid question and it’s usually figured out when you are placed in a situation of controversy and your morals are challenged and you realize that you were already doing something the other people talk about and new reevaluate where you stand in that realm and sustainability gets involved. You have to be able to spearhead your motion. If you are not willing to sacrifice your time to ensure that things are going your way that’s unsustainable and that’s never going to happen.

The conception of defined change happen because I was going through stages of my life where I was actively changing and challenging what I was taught. I would like to be an advocate in my own sense of responsibility. Define change is here to encourage and provide direction to those that have too many concepts going on and would like to contribute their goals in sharing and opportunity.

Define change is for those that are already established themselves to look towards expansion and reach into a different type of community and for those that are getting started on finding their niche. You’re not alone.

We all learn from each other, it’s the way of life when avoiding ignorance. Ignorance is a tool for closing ourselves in from life lessons we create negativity which can develop into depression of some sort for those that are weak mentally. 

I want you to know. That you don’t know what you don’t know and the world is not against you. Make everyday a positive experience and find ways to cultivate the person you want to be.

  • Till next time
    • Christine – Namastechill

Who Are you?

It’s a difficult question, but it shouldn’t be.

These three words have significant power on your personality.

You Are

Getting older, meeting new people, changing jobs, and trying new things will shape and mold a person. We are evolutionary… we can choose to change or we can stay the same… At the end of the day, it’s the choice that makes us human.

That particular question can affect how we feel about who we are today. If we aren’t where we want to be when that question is asked, we may think we aren’t in control of our lives; maybe even incomplete and searching.

Knowing who you are; means more for you, than to those around you. It’s how we become unique and innovative individuals, or we stay ordinary and conform. The journey of self-discovery is a long and personal one; and one you have to take alone. With that in mind, discovering is just the beginning, and once you know the possibilities you’ll be overwhelmed with where your ambitions will take you.

This reason to discover who you are, is to find awareness of yourself, then adjust your habits and your personal perspective of what you are capable of. Understanding who you are is special and overshadows specific defining characteristics of your physical person. By consistently being yourself, you are defining your future situations, and grounding yourself in positive affirmations.

I’ve conversed with people that are so confident in who they are, they believe it’s an excuse to behave uniquely. Creating the confidence in themselves to be bold and adverse.

I understand the presumption that we are subject to our environment. Our environment is definitely a character development train, but we then have to look into our unique experiences, The experiences and obstacles that shaped us are never the same, and that’s perfectly fine. My hope is for you to not search for answers in the wrong places. Look inside; look at how you behave, where you want to be, and make the conscious choice to do better.

When I discovered the person I am, it changed me. Allowed me the opportunity to achieve what I couldn’t see without knowing who I was. I doubted myself too much; waited for direction and needed guidance. Of course we all should have that… but throwing yourself to the wolves is also another way to learn your limits and define the boundaries of your person…(I suggest finding guidance from someone who took the time to define themselves)

We are all trying to do our best with what we have, some people underestimate the power of personal character and how the outside behavior of others can influence how we behave to the next person. 💕 Our inherent trait as humans is to mimic those we admire.. aim to be the one people choose to follow.

Our goals should be influenced by the people in our lives that have made a positive impact and that we would like to emanate that behavior in future engagements.

Push yourself, break out of your comfort zone and figure out what you want to look back on and be proud of. Don’t hesitate to make a difference when you can. I’ve found when you finally help yourself you start to create an atmosphere that fosters good intentions. From there you have the ability to create income due to your selfless interactions with the people you help.

The simple thank yous‘ and acknowledgement can set you on the right path of personal success to financial success.

Gratitude and appreciation ☺️are stepping stones to let everything go, and get back to basics.

That one question -Who are you?- is usually determined with where you’re at in your life. Are you happy?

I use to allow others to use my time, and I’d be left empty, not by them, but for permitting myself to give without recourse. Putting an end to that doesn’t make you a mean person That makes you a self-sufficient person. Are you passionate about your work? Could tell me what you find enjoyable? That will tell me what kind of person you are.

But

Do you know who you are? A question like that can be found and answered in different ways.

Do you understand what has happened to you, and do you want to live this way?

Decisions create our perspective every day.

Are you confident in your actions or do you second guess yourself after?


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Why Start and keep going…

You’ve found something you can describe as your passion, it brings you happiness and purpose when you start. Accomplishing the task will create an emotion of pure identification with yourself and who you are. The proof of your labor put into something shareable; the art you’ve taken from your brain to create something presentable.

Sadly sometimes.. A day goes by, maybe two, and you notice the momentum and vigor you started with… is draining. You wonder what else you can be doing and set aside your passion for something that might provide instant gratification.

Why?

We do this for many reasons, one is the human brain isn’t capable of multitasking as well as we believe we can. Or someone said it wasn’t a catchy idea, so you let it go.

It’s taken me five years to start this. The biggest win, for me is the moment of doing. Moral of the story- you can start whenever you want; you’re just going to have to be consistent once you start. I thought about creating a blog with my dog when I adopted her and even to this day; and now I will.

Bailey March 13 2015 I went to an animal shelter

why do we start putting ourselves out there ? Why do we want our words to be reviewed and taken seriously ? My goal is that you love something just as much as I love my fur baby, or you’re looking to figure out; “how do I start something from scratch?”

When finding your why; you’ll be capable of anything. Than getting started, will be cake. The keeping going part, well there are going to be roadblocks and in those situations being able to lay out your plan is essential. I recommend a layout plan for what to do next, either using a book, a calendar, or an app (ie: Trello)

Realizing that you want to get started – from my advice; the best thing you can do to identify what you’re passionate about and from there pinpoint your WHY. Finding your why is the one thing no one can take away from you, you’re determined to achieve this through your struggles and when you feel that you have no motivation to keep going on your own.

Motivation is the backbone of all activities that you take on for yourself. If you lack the right motivational affirmations click the link and pick the few that resonate with you.

When starting your next venture here are some things to think of:

  1. You are exactly what you need – let’s fine tune
  2. Lay out your plan – understand the steps
  3. Find your why and keep yourself focused
  4. Visualize your goals – easier to make adjustments
  5. Get back to basics – communicate and complete the simple tasks
  6. Remember you will succeed

There will always be obstacles in-front of you and you will continue to jump those hurdles. Sometimes it’s better to have a partner helping you along the way; whether it be a coach, consultant, or business partner, it’s important to have someone with a similar vision. This is your purpose.

Your why, will be the reason you continue to better yourself; the reason your success is going to thrive when others could throw in the towel. When discovering your why ponder;

  • who/what makes you happy
  • what are you wishing for
  • your morals and values

Finding your why will help you understand, if you had all the money in the world, what would continue to make your unbelievably happy. For me, my dog makes me extremely happy. I know, I would like for us to have a spoiled life with no restrictions on where we go.

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