What do I do now?

Have you ever wondered how we reach a point in our lives we want to share with others?
Was it through school? Pre-school? Or how about overall upbringing?
The moment we share, we become a valuable resource to those around us and can actually make a difference with education and behavior. I think we reach a point where we want to share and the best things to share is love, understanding, and positivity.

Why do I think I have the ability to motivate you? Well let’s start with vibes, I find it’s important when living to make positive impacts on those around you.. at the very least make sure to either create a neutral or impactful presence. I remember ONE time in my life, someone told me I didn’t leave an impression……. fuck them. Sometimes it takes someone saying something to make you think about who you are as a person, and that’s good.. as long as you have a strong opinion of yourself, you can always do your best. I have always been a go-getter and have surrounded myself with loving people that encourage the best out of me. If I could recommend one book for you to get started on your journey it would be the four agreements.

It’s important to know; that you’re not meant for everyone.
Guess what? When you start your own business, you have to learn that or fail. You’re meant to be happy. If you work too hard on the wrong people.. you’re preventing yourself from finding the ones that deserve it.

I’ve shifted to a positive outward mindset since covid 2019 and I connect with people that respect that part of me that stays unapologetically myself. Discovering the truly authentic person that you are is how you discover your identity The people you spend your time around are going to be the biggest influences in your life; if their good people or bad people that will guide you in your life, but it doesn’t define you, unless you allow it to.

In a society that has its own views on what’s normal and expected, it’s important for us to have opinions. Opinions are expressions of your growth as an individual and don’t forget how valuable those are. The real reason I wrote this article was to give some facts about why I’ve taken on this responsibility; not only for myself but for my friends.

If you want the change – you have to be the change, put yourself first, and let those that support you come next. I graduated with two Bachelors from an accredited institute and I learned from some amazing people that won’t ever know how much they guided me into my unique life.

What are you looking to accomplish.  I don’t think we will ever be fully prepared for life, so navigate well.

When it comes to Define change it’s meant to help people grow as individuals; guiding them with opportunities of awareness, and some people don’t want to.

People ask me all the time why I’m ambitious and it’s because I want to change the world. Changing the world requires constant effort and it also requires the people around you to think in alignment. What do these words mean? Show me it means you’ve dealt with enough of societal bullshit to determine there’s a better way of living. We aim to help lead others, not to manage.

How should I feel? ‘
Be the person that shares helpful feelings, offer insight and direction; instead of negativity and closed-mindedness. With so much controversy on emotions, I believe strongly communication and passion can help make up for the lack of hand holding we have as a society. .

Don’t hold grudges, what’s the difference between the word human and human beings. Only let things in your heart that keep it beating.

I’ve been in situations where I’ve done all I could to help somebody and the only reason they couldnt move forward is because they weren’t ready for it. Running into those people is a dime a dozen and you’re going to be a challenge regularly on who you are as a person.

When does consistency and sustainability become defined. That’s a solid question and it’s usually figured out when you are placed in a situation of controversy and your morals are challenged and you realize that you were already doing something the other people talk about and new reevaluate where you stand in that realm and sustainability gets involved. You have to be able to spearhead your motion. If you are not willing to sacrifice your time to ensure that things are going your way that’s unsustainable and that’s never going to happen.

The conception of defined change happen because I was going through stages of my life where I was actively changing and challenging what I was taught. I would like to be an advocate in my own sense of responsibility. Define change is here to encourage and provide direction to those that have too many concepts going on and would like to contribute their goals in sharing and opportunity.

Define change is for those that are already established themselves to look towards expansion and reach into a different type of community and for those that are getting started on finding their niche. You’re not alone.

We all learn from each other, it’s the way of life when avoiding ignorance. Ignorance is a tool for closing ourselves in from life lessons we create negativity which can develop into depression of some sort for those that are weak mentally. 

I want you to know. That you don’t know what you don’t know and the world is not against you. Make everyday a positive experience and find ways to cultivate the person you want to be.

  • Till next time
    • Christine – Namastechill

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